Sunday, December 30, 2007

Girls of My Life... So Far

Let’s see… well maybe I do live in save haven. My parents are great, my brother is sweet, my home is warm. We are comfortable middle class, we are never short of basic needs and even can taste a bit of higher class frills without the common complexity of super-rich families. I come from the majority ethnic group, racism is never an issue. I’m minority in religion but so thankfully I live among these tolerant neighbors and friends. My childhood was immaculate, I did great at school, friends and teachers loved me. My teen years were colorful but generally exciting. My college years were great. And I’m undergoing a promising professional life now.

Therefore I would like to thank you, girls of my life. My exes and all of you who ever crossed path with me in the romantic side. Thank you for really put a balance to my life, put the bitterness intertwined with the sweetness. Thank you for teaching me how to cope with betrayal, loss, and ridicule. Thank you for pointing me my room of improvements. There were moments when I hated the challenging lesson of life you had given, but now I really realize how my every drop of tears does nothing but growing me to a better person each time.

If I can choose, I definitely want to pass this pain with the lesson. But learning process is always painful, it’s an investment of time, money, and peace of mind. I guess only through it I can really learn. About perseverance, faith, hope, and finally, love.

Therefore, again, thank you, girls, thank you. No sarcasm here, no irony. I’m humbly thanking you all. My personal growth was with you, all of it were treasuring for me.

Happy new year, wish you all love, wish you all happiness.